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higure{Why do you not want to be my friend?}
this is a reaction to people wondering why no one/certain people do not want to friend them on a friending meme
This is a social experiment as much as it is a meme.
This is NOT a hate meme!Rules:
Fill out the form at the end of this entry like you would fill it out on a friending meme
Let people tell you anonymously why they don’t want to be friends with you based on this filled out form
I do not want any personal hate or bashing, but there may be many other interesting reasons:- maybe you don’t friend people who like Tegoshi (despite having many other things in common otherwise) because Tegoshi in big doses makes you dizzy
- maybe you want your friends list balanced, so you are friending only people who have wide range of interests
- maybe the .gif they posted seemed too forced, like they are trying too much
- it is okay that someone sounds e.g. intimidating based on the filled out form or that you want someone closer to your age
- it is not okay saying you heard someone is a bitch and they should get lost
This meme is about finding out what turns people off friending other specific people based on the impression created by a friending meme post 
If it turns into personal hate and bashing, I will have no qualms to delete this entry and conclude internet is not a place for such an experiment.
But I hope you all would try to have an open mind and create as friendly of an atmosphere as possible for an anti-friending meme.Here is the form to fill in:
(the form is identical as the one for the latest friending meme, and the idea of this was not really mine either, I am not that brilliant.)
Play nice, if you think this is a good idea, help me spread the word!edit: the hate meme for those who got lost ;D is now here
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:03 pm (UTC)Age: 25
Twitter: sashjun
Tumblr: sashjun (but I can't keep up with either)
Favorite groups: KAT-TUN, Arashi, Kanjani 8, NEWS . . .
Favourite pairings: ah lol, okay RyoDa, RyoShige, MaruDa, Ryo/Ohkura, NakaNishi, I have a new found love for SubaRyo and Ace/Arcenal, and NakaMa is precious . . .
Other fandoms: I don't really actively fangirl anything else. I poke around, but. Oh I love Takahashi Minami a lot even though I know and like like two AKB48 songs /random
Friending requirements, if any: I like friends that do communicate with me from time ti time. And I once de-friended a teenager who kept swearing and insulting anything and everything, but mainly her parents and I just . . . could not take it anymore. So some basic level of propriety I guess.
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Oh lol, all of mine turned into simple pictures when I reinstalled my PC. But I just found this, so here you go:
I just totally copied the entire thing from the last meme >.>
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:12 pm (UTC)Name: Laura
Age: 23
Twitter: spurious
Tumblr: spurious
Favorite groups: Kanjani8, V6, Arashi, News, KAT-TUN, Tokio
Favourite pairings: ALL THE PAIRINGS. Particular favorites I guess are Yoko/Hina, Subaru/Yasu, Subaru/Ryo…I really just ship every K8 pairing tbh, Ohmiya, Nino/Aiba, every other possible Arashi pairing, Yoko/Aiba, Ryo/Shige, Pin, Akame (with multiple caveats), Ryo/Pi, Takki/Tsubasa….yeah stopping now.
Other fandoms: Harry Potter always and forever. I watch a lot of American tv but don't really post about it all that often? Idk I like a lot of stuff but I'm pretty much only fandom-y about Johnnys at this point.
Friending requirements, if any: Tolerance for occasional bursts of drunkenness, capslocky flail, incoherent post-concert posts, and porn.
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:16 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:17 pm (UTC)Name: Karen
Age: 31
Twitter: KarinBerry
Tumblr: iamthekaren (I do remember getting this completely wrong on the last meme; I said it was KarinBerry)
Favorite groups: News and K8, also sometimes KAT-TUN, Arashi, TOKIO, and Kinki Kids.
Favourite pairings: TegoMasu, KoyaShige, Pin, NEWS/NEWS, Subaru/Yasu, Ryo/Uchi, K8/K8, Akame (on rainy days)
Other fandoms: Star Trek TOS and AOS, Harry Potter, White Collar, NCIS
Friending requirements, if any: None
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:26 pm (UTC)Name: call me Rei~
Age: 18
Twitter: -
Tumblr: -
Favorite groups: KAT-TUN (6/5), Jin, NewS, Arashi, K8
Favourite pairings: akame, pin, ryoda mostly main. Can read more pairings (kokame, koda, maruda, anyone/jin, some junda, yamapi/food, etc..)~
Other fandoms: VK, HP, Jdramas
Friending requirements, if any: I want to talk to my f-list and get to know them~ Therefore fangirl flail or RL talk are all welcome~
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-gifs are stolen
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:27 pm (UTC)^ that there.
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:29 pm (UTC)Yeah. And also lack of capital letters in your pairings.
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:29 pm (UTC)Also thanks for giving this a try?
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:39 pm (UTC)Will change it next time, thank you anon-san :D
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:39 pm (UTC)Directly from the last meme, we haaave-
Name: Sir Master of the Universe, His Royal Highness Kieran-sama
Age: 20
Twitter: KuntaSama
Tumblr: TatsuTree
Favorite groups: KANJU, K8, Arashi, NEWS, HSJ, Kisumai, ABC-Z, your mom, MSM, Otokogumi, Hikaru GENJI, KAT-TUN, TOKIO, a cat, V6, Shounentai, The Man In The Moon
Favourite pairings: I'll pick five. Akito/Junta. Because it's so obvious. Akito/Fucking Everyone. Also obvious. Yoko/Hina. SO OBVIOUS. Bun/Hamada. Because it's made of fluff and friendship and Ham likes getting smacked.
Oh, and Murocest. Yes. That means I like the idea of Ryuta naked and complaining and hard under his brother(s). Seriously. He'd be so PRETTY.
Other fandoms: Doctor Who, mostly. AND FEAR MY EPIC EBIKISU POKEMON TEAM.
Friending requirements, if any: Twitter. Use it. And tumblr.
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Have a Ryuta.
...and
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:40 pm (UTC)Age: 18
Twitter:@ebisuz (http://twitter.com/#!/ebisuz)
Tumblr: fujiiryusei (http://fujiiryusei.tumblr.com/)
Favorite groups:The whole Jimsuho? BAD, VETERAN,
BOYSHama-chan, 7WEST, A.B.C-Z, Kisumai, Butoukan, MSM, V6, TOKIO, Taiga's Team, Gang star, Shadow WEST, HikaGen, KAT-TUN, Shounentai, THEYBudou, MA-MIX, MA, Question?, MAD, KyoOtoko, 4U... that enough yet? XDFavourite pairings:Yara/ Yamaryo, BAD, Shige/Take, Nisen, HASSHI/EVERYONE? :DDDD YARA/CHURa etc.
Other fandoms:ONE OK ROCK, AAA, Happiness, Flower, Remioromen, EXILE, Hilcrhyme, AKB, LINKIN PARK etc.
Friending requirements, if any: don't be put off by spam and my British complaining tendancies?
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sorry keep on editing it ]:
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:41 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:41 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:42 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:42 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:46 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:47 pm (UTC)Name: delfi
Age: 26
Twitter: same as lj
Tumblr: midaregami
Favorite groups: KAT-TUN, Arashi for their variety shows, Kisumai though I hardly talk about them.
Favourite pairings: MaruDa, Nakanishi, basically anything with Nakamaru, Koki/Junno.
Other fandoms: Japanese dramas/actors/movies, all sorts of music aside from jpop. I really lack time for most fandoms lately D:
Friending requirements, if any: None, as long as there's at least some activity in your journal so we can interact a bit. Warning: I really know nothing about Kpop and don't care about it.
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:48 pm (UTC)(Also you come off as a bit 'look at me and all these groups I like!' :X)
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Date: 2011-09-23 05:48 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-09-23 05:49 pm (UTC)I STILL DON'T UNDERSTAND WHERE THAT SLIPPER CAME FROM